LGBTQ in general Most LGBTQphobes (i.e homophobes/lesphobes/transphobes) are LGBTQ people in denial of being queer/lesbian/trans and repressing their true LGBTQ (queer/lesbian/trans) desires. So keep that in mind when countering their hate. See here , here , here , here , also here for some balance I do emp athi c ally show sy mp solid ari ty in a ble ed ing op en hea rt ed way with LGBTQ people. I was a picked on as a kid for being different by some classmates and the child study team, shrinks etc and I see that type of oppression in LGBTQ people and it makes me want to help them as I see myself in them. * for cpusa link, infantize link, reflection,projection link, etc At heart, I can bear (with reservations) the idea of requiring homosexuals to become trans women to marry other men and requiring lesbians to become trans men to marry other ...